President's Blog
This November we will be stretching our boundaries together, starting with an in-person/zoom platform on Nov. 3 by Randy Best to explore how to make Ethical Apologies. He will also lead a decompression discussion on Nov. 7, to help us get through this stressful election season. On Nov. 10, Melissa Sinclair will lead a zoom only discussion to learn about Canyon Chorus. On the Nov. 17, we will have a in-person meeting with a guest speaker, Terry Smith, from WES. He will talk about The Foundation of Applied Ethics. We will end the month on Nov. 24 with a joint Stone Salad/Soup event at WES that will include Washington and Baltimore Ethical Society members! Check the calendar for more details about these events, and many other activities that are being offered this month.
During November, we will be fundraising for Britepaths, an organization that provides food, financial assistance, financial education and workforce development services for clients in the Northern VA Area. We hope you will give as generously as you can to help this worthy cause.
The Fall season has started and now the attentions of the Ethical Society are turning to voting. We are offering several meetings to talk about voting issues, and will be collecting funds to support the ACLU to hep further in its pursuit of ending voter discrimination. Please join us in person or on zoom when available to learn more about voting issues and what we can do to improve the process.
We will also take a look at the history of European Witches as we near the celebration of Halloween. I am looking forward to finding out more about this interesting topic presented by one of our members, Tom Nyilasi.
And whatever you do, be sure to make a plan to vote! If anyone is in need of assistance to vote, please contact any board member of NoVES so we can help find a way to make it happen for you! Every vote counts!
As the school year starts, NoVES will start back with in-person meetings on Sept. 8, 2024. Since September is National Banned Books month, we will be learning about the ethical issues regarding book bans, reading some of these banned books and finding out what we can do to help stop this process when it occurs. Please join us in this important exploration!
One of the things I think is important as an humanist is to learn about and to support and all people so that we all can live in a better world. I will try to highlight all the populations that are given special months and weeks and days through-out the year and please, share with me (and the rest of NoVES) other ways we can bring out the best in ourselves. This is a collection of articles, videos, books, and sites that might be of interest to you (and perhaps your family):
Something what brought to our attention recently and that is that the NoVES Board meetings used to have an invite to all members in the newsletter. Somewhere along the line in the last couple years, that custom got dropped. Can I blame COVID-19, because I think that is the main reason the announcement got dropped?
The NoVES board meets approximately once a month. Recently it has been on the third Saturday of the month at 10 via Zoom. While the meeting is open to everyone, there is always an executive session for Board members only. 99% of the time this is a formality so that we make sure to have it, but it is a time when sensitive topics might be brought up that we would want to limit the audience usually to protect the privacy of someone. So, with that said, Saturday at 10am until 1pm is the scheduled board meeting for NoVES.
Zoom link:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86250435076?pwd=Ry9iR0Y4bVlFVmJXZHQrbkVnNDl4dz09
Meeting ID: 862 5043 5076
Passcode: 885527
"Every now and then I think about my own death, and I think about my own funeral.... Every now and then I ask myself, 'What is it that I want said?' I'd like somebody to mention that day, that Martin Luther King Jr., tried to give his life serving others. I'd like for somebody to say that day, that Martin Luther King Jr., tried to love somebody."
Martin Luther King, Jr.
We are meeting this Sunday on MLK's actual birthday. I find that special that we are meeting on this day and if you can't make it this Sunday, I hope it's because you are doing something for this day of service.
MLK would have been 94 years old this year. He was taken too soon, but he did love somebody and he did give his life serving others. We can honor him by DOING for world. But what? What can we do that matters? I want to remind you that service comes in big and small packages. Sometimes all you can give is a listening ear. Sometimes it's a helping hand, or a donation - large or small. We need ALL of it. We need people to do the work and people to support the work financially. Every thing you do to help another person, matters. We can't all be Martin Luther King, Jr., but we can do good for this world. I know I want to do more. There are times I can manage to do a lot and at other times I can do very little, but if I keep it an aim or goal to always strive for living my core values, I will find ways to do SOMETHING.
Welcome to the New Year everyone! I hope I'll have a chance to talk with several of you at the Winter festival so that we can start talking about what we hope for this spring! I know that we want to have a Spaghetti dinner and we want to plan for our 35th anniversary year, but we can plan more and dream for more and I would love to hear it!
The AEU is a cohost of the third annual HumanLight virtual Celebration. It is happening (today) December 17th at 4 pm.(it is a bit confusing because on the sight it also used December 23 for a date - as that is the "actual" day that you might want to celebrate on our own or with your own group.) This is a new festival to me, but it might be something you feel fits your values and idea of how to celebrate this time of year. It's not one of the other fesitival during the season, but a new one. Want to know more? Read the FAQ here. But to participate, you do need to register which you can do here on the HumanLight site.
I love winter events because they help break up the cold, dark months of the year, but there is such a crowding of events between Thanksgiving and the New Year that it gets a bit frenzied, but that is how the calendar is laid out in our country, so we deal with it year after year. That was how it used to be at NoVES too. When my family first joined NoVES, there was a fall festival just before Thanksgiving and a winter festival just before the winter solstice. The last festival was is always some time in the spring. I don't remember the year, but about a decade ago NoVES was ready for it's winter festival the week before school's winter break, but we got a notification from the school that there had been a flood in the school the night before and we wouldn't be able to use the school next day. There was nothing we could do except to call off the festival until after the New Year. Initially, we were all sad that everything had to be delayed and we were sad about moving our festival further away from winter solstice, but the flip side to it was that members got a break in the schedule by not forcing another event into a packed December. And having a winter festival in January is definitely celebrating it in winter and the side benefit is that more people could attend (weather permitting) and it makes it less like the religious holidays in December. It is truly celebrating winter. The darkness is beginning to lift as we experience more light. So what started as an unfortunate event turned into a positive change for the society. There are other winter events NoVES will be hosting and participating in. I hope to see you there.
At the Stone Salad festival there were tabletop decorations where people could write what they were thankful for. After I gathered all the trees to be reused for future years, I took each of the leaves off the tree, I decided to write down what everyone wrote to share with people who were not able to attend the festival in person this year. I hope you find it as heartwarming as I did. This is what people wrote in random order. I am thankful for:
